pillar05

单身的人越来越多了！这是啥世道呢？？

BOBO05

<DIV class=quote><B>以下是引用<I>pillar05</I>在2005-12-13 18:11:00的发言：</B><BR>单身的人越来越多了！这是啥世道呢？？</DIV>
<P>楼主是一位极具才华，风姿优雅的女士。</P>

鸡蛋糕

<DIV class=quote><B>以下是引用<I>BOBO05</I>在2005-12-13 19:24:00的发言：</B><BR><BR>
<P>楼主是一位极具才华，风姿优雅的女士。</P></DIV>
<P>强烈要求上照片</P>

大饼甸子

<P>很意外这见事情得到这么多人的关注.</P>
<P>我并不是什么风姿优雅的女士,大学毕业两年,沉浮里时常迷惘.习惯了工作生活的点滴,不管伟大琐碎都与一人分享.爱是很难言语的,交织着责任,与关怀.第一次知道,与一个毫无血缘关系的人,竟然也可以如此亲近,如此契合.却因为这点而让他"没有了感觉",没有了当初的心境.</P>
<P>这世间人人都是独一无二的宝贝,大家尽可安心,我不会太为难自己.就算是这样了,我也真诚地跟他坐下来谈,谦卑地请他说出心里真正的感受与想法,也许搁了很长的时间了,不是为了挽回,是为了成长的,打破面子的束缚,对生命负责...</P>

zkeanu

<P>all u need is some friends , who can talk to</P>
<P>someone can understand what u going through</P>
<P>when it is come to love there is no easy answer</P>
<P>when u remember those moment of romantic, u got to make up ur mind,</P>
<P>r u going to find someone who love u, or  r u going back to d one u love?</P>
<P>someone will cry when they know they lost u ,</P>
<P>someone will thank d star above</P>
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zkeanu

choose life to be romantic rather than to be romantic with someone only

大饼甸子

<DIV>It hurts to love someone and not to be loved in return , but what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let the person know how you feel. Maybe God wants us to meet few wrong people before meeting the right one so that we we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be greatful for that gift. </DIV>
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<DIV>Love is when you take away the feeling , the passion ,the romance in a relationship and find out you still care for that person. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you , only to find out in  the end that it was never meant to be and you  just have to let go.When the door of happiness closes, another door open;often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one, which has been opened for us.</DIV>
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<DIV>The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with ,never say a word and then walk away, feel like it was the best conversation you have ever had.</DIV>
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<DIV>It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we have been missing until it arrives.Giving all your love is never an assurance that they'd love you back! Don't expect love in return;just wait for it to grow in their hearts,but it doesn't be content it grew in yours.</DIV>
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<DIV>There are things you 'd love to hear that you would never hear from the person whom you would likve to hear it from,but don't be so deaf as not to hear it from the one who says it from his heart. Never say goodbye if you still want to try, never give up if you still feel you can go on, never say don't love a person anymore if you can't let go.</DIV>
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香消影疏

<P>我想每个人这一生中都会经历失恋， 怎样在最短的时间内恢复过来是大家都希望得到的答案。</P>
<P>还记得上学的时候，和一个很喜欢很喜欢的男朋友分手后，曾经失落了好久好久，不管是走在回家的路上，还是坐在公车里，自己都会莫名其妙的哭起来。那时候，只想把自己关在一个小房间里，什么事都不做，除了哭泣。有朋友安慰说：坚强点，振作点，既然分手了，又有什么好留恋的呢？可是当时我根本听不进去，自己一个人失魂落魄。。。</P>
<P>现在回想起来，觉得当时很小孩子气。当时不是不想放下，不是不想遗忘，是舍不得放下，舍不得遗忘那段感情。自己太执著于让自己消沉和痛苦，心里宁愿享受着这些痛苦，也不愿意去面对现实。</P>
<P>搂住mm，其实我也不知道该说什么，只是希望你可以面对现实，做回自己。如果还不愿放弃，就做最后一丝的努力，万一不被接受就大大方方的离开；如果可以挽回，就仔细分析为何他要提出分手，是不是双方的沟通方面产生了问题或是误解，从而改善和增进彼此的感情。</P>
<P>但不论结果如何，我们都要勇敢的面对生活。。。失去任何一个人，地球一样会旋转，生活还是要继续！！！</P>

snow-baby

支持楼主妹妹，希望你继续坚强，自信地生活，时间是治愈感情伤口的最好良药。女人在经历了许多次的聚散离合，欢乐痛苦后，越发成熟迷人，最终一定会遇到你的Mr Right,最好的总会在最后等着你。祝福你圣诞快乐！