<div style="FLOAT: left;"><img alt="发贴心情" src="http://sgchinese.com/bbs/skins/Default/topicface/face3.gif"/></div><b><分享> 《智慧书》300天,让我们每天都能领悟到人生中的大智慧.</b><div style="PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; MARGIN-TOP: 10px; FONT-SIZE: 9pt; OVERFLOW-X: hidden; WIDTH: 97%; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 24px; LINE-HEIGHT: normal; HEIGHT: 200px; WORD-WRAP: break-word;"><p><b><font size="3">《智慧书》 — 永恒的人生处世经典 <br/><br/>巴尔塔沙•葛拉西安 [Baltasar Gracian] (1601~1658),西班牙著名作家,一位满怀入世热忱的耶稣会教士,对人类的愚行深恶痛绝,著有《英雄宝镜》 、 《政治家》 、 《诗之才艺》 、 《批评大师》等著作。 <br/><br/>本书收录了300则葛拉西安的箴言,每一则都字字珠玑,充满了生活智慧和修成智慧实际可行的法则。该书与《君王论》 、 《孙子兵法》一同被欧洲学者视为千百年来人类思想史上具有永恒价值的处世智慧三大奇书。 <br/><br/>该书1992年被翻译为英文,立刻跻身十大畅销书排行榜。</font></b><br/> <br/><br/><br/><img title="dvubb" alt="图片点击可在新窗口打开查看" src="http://sgchinese.com/bbs/Skins/Default/emot/em01.gif" align="middle" border="0"/><img title="dvubb" alt="图片点击可在新窗口打开查看" src="http://sgchinese.com/bbs/Skins/Default/emot/em01.gif" align="middle" border="0"/><img title="dvubb" alt="图片点击可在新窗口打开查看" src="http://sgchinese.com/bbs/Skins/Default/emot/em01.gif" align="middle" border="0"/><img title="dvubb" alt="图片点击可在新窗口打开查看" src="http://sgchinese.com/bbs/Skins/Default/emot/em01.gif" align="middle" border="0"/><img title="dvubb" alt="图片点击可在新窗口打开查看" src="http://sgchinese.com/bbs/Skins/Default/emot/em01.gif" align="middle" border="0"/></p><p><br/></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体;"><p> </p></span></p><p> </p><p></p><p> </p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 18.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><p><font face="Times New Roman"></font></p></span></p><p><font face="Times New Roman"></font></p><p><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"></font></p><p></p><p></p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体;"><span lang="EN-US"><p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 18.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1.</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体;">修成完人是万物最大的完美<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体;"><p> </p></span></p><p> </p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体;">当今的世界,要成就一个贤哲之士,所花费的工夫要比造就希腊七贤还要多的多。而今天与一个人周旋所耗费的精力要比与一个国家周旋所花的资源还要多。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体;"><p> </p></span></p><p> </p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 18.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2.</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体;">性格与才智<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体;"><p> </p></span></p><p> </p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体;">性格与才智是你的天自然发挥的转轴。二者不可或缺,缺其中一个,成功就会减半。徒有才智不足以成就非凡大事,你还必须拥有一个与才智相适应的性格。那些愚蠢的人之所以失败,就在于他们行事不能顾及自身的条件<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">、</b>地<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">、</b>出身及友群。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><p><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></p></span></p><p><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 18.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><font face="Times New Roman">3.</font></span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">凡事要保持一定的悬疑</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><p><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></p></span></p><p><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.25; tab-stops: 27.0pt 36.0pt 45.0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">出人意料获得成功最能赢得钦佩,令人心悦诚服。如果事情过于明显,既无用处,也没有品位。不立即表明态度,往往能使人们猜测不已;尤其是当你的地位重要而能够使人保持一种期待心理时,更是如此。神秘的奇妙之处在于,可以通过其神秘性来赢得他人的敬重。即使吐露心迹,道出真相,也不应该让人一览无余,切勿任由他人来窥视你里里外外的奥秘。谨慎的缄默是明智之人的护身符。你的目标和决心一旦披露出来,非但不受尊敬,反而招致批评。一旦实施之后,结果欠佳,就会带来加倍的不幸。假如你想赢得人们的关注和供奉,不妨向那些行而不言的神祉(</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">zhi3</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">)学习学习。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.25; tab-stops: 27.0pt 36.0pt 45.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><p><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></p></span></p><p><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-char-indent-count: 2.25; tab-stops: 27.0pt 36.0pt 45.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">4</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">.知识和勇气兼具方可成伟业</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.25; tab-stops: 27.0pt 36.0pt 45.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><p><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></p></span></p><p><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.25; tab-stops: 27.0pt 36.0pt 45.0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">知识与勇气两者是不朽的,故也能成你于不朽。一个人多掌握的知识的深浅,决定了他成就的高低。如果学时丰富,所知甚多,则无事不可为。那些孤陋寡闻者则如同将自己囿(</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">you4</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">)于一个黑暗的世界。判断力和体力如同双眼与双手。那些没有足够的勇气者。智慧往往无法开花结果。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.25; tab-stops: 27.0pt 36.0pt 45.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><p><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></p></span></p><p><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-char-indent-count: 2.25; tab-stops: 27.0pt 36.0pt 45.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">5</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">.让人们依赖于你</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.25; tab-stops: 27.0pt 36.0pt 45.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;"><p><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></p></span></p><p><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.25; tab-stops: 27.0pt 36.0pt 45.0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">神之所以为神,并不在于人们雕塑</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体;">、装饰其像,而在于人们敬奉它。真正聪明的人宁使人需要他,也不使人们感激他。世俗之人的感激远不如礼貌的希冀更有价值。其原因在于心有所求,常常会铭记不忘,而感激之情则容易被人淡忘。与其让别人对你彬彬有礼,还不如让别人对你有所依赖。人们在酣饮之后,往往掉头离井而去;柑橘的汁水被榨干之后,灿烂的金黄色果肉也都变为渣泥。一旦人们对你不再依赖,则所有的礼貌恭维都会化为乌有。经验教给我们最重要的人生启示就是:维持别人对你的依赖,勿使其完全得到满足。倘若能如此的话,君王亦可以为你控制。但此法实践时不可行之过度,以免因为你的缄默而令他人误入歧途,或者因一己之利而坐视他人病入膏肓。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.25; tab-stops: 27.0pt 36.0pt 45.0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体;"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.25; tab-stops: 27.0pt 36.0pt 45.0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体;"></span></p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体;"><p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-char-indent-count: 2.25; tab-stops: 27.0pt 36.0pt 45.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体;">6</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体;">.臻善臻美<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.25; tab-stops: 27.0pt 36.0pt 45.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体;"><p> </p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.25; tab-stops: 27.0pt 36.0pt 45.0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体;">没有人生下就完美的,因此应该日求渐进,做到德业兼修,最终就会尽善尽美,禀赋圆成,成就非凡而声明显赫。完美的特征如下几种:品位高雅,意志清明,判断成熟。有的人永远难以臻于完美,多少有些缺陷;而有些人则经久历时才能小有成就。那些臻善臻美的人表现得总是言辞明智,行为谨慎,慎思明辨者愿与之为伍,甚至乐与之为伍。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.25; tab-stops: 27.0pt 36.0pt 45.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体;"><p> </p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-char-indent-count: 2.25; tab-stops: 27.0pt 36.0pt 45.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体;">7</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体;">.不要与上司争光<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.25; tab-stops: 27.0pt 36.0pt 45.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体;"><p> </p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.25; tab-stops: 27.0pt 36.0pt 45.0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体;">与人相争而落败是件令人恼怒之事。凌驾在你的上司之上,不仅愚蠢,甚至会产生致命的后果。那些自认为优人一等的人往往令人嫌弃,尤其易于招来上<personname wst="on" productid="司和人">司和人</personname>君的嫉恨。因此,寻常的优点稍加用心就可以掩饰,譬如不关痛痒的缺陷即可以掩去娇好的容貌。运气、性格和气质等等被人超越,许多人并不太在意,但是却没有人愿意在智利上被人超越,尤其是那些为人之主的。智利是人格属性之王,对其的任何冒犯都是大不敬。领导者总希望自己在最重要的事情上能高人一筹。君王喜欢得人辅佐,不喜欢被人凌越。如果你想向某人提出忠告和谏言,应该表现出是他偶然忘记了某事,而你不过是提醒他而已;千万不要表现出是他不够开窍,而要靠你释疑解惑才能明白。此中道理观察群星即可悟得:群星显然都有光亮,却不敢掩太阳之光。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.25; tab-stops: 27.0pt 36.0pt 45.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体;"><p> </p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-char-indent-count: 2.25; tab-stops: 27.0pt 36.0pt 45.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体;">8</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体;">。不受一时激情所左右<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.25; tab-stops: 27.0pt 36.0pt 45.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体;"><p> </p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.25; tab-stops: 27.0pt 36.0pt 45.0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体;">这是一种最高精神品质。你应该秉持这种个人的优秀品质,不被庸俗、短暂即逝的印象左右。一个人的修养没有能比自制及自控自己的冲动情绪更伟大的了,这是一种意志力的胜利。即使激情影响你个人,也不要使之影响你的地位,特别当地位对你十分重要时。这是明智的避祸之举,也是获得他人尊重的捷径。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.25; tab-stops: 27.0pt 36.0pt 45.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></p><p></p></span><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-char-indent-count: 2.25; tab-stops: 27.0pt 36.0pt 45.0pt;"></p><p></p><p></p></span></span><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.25; tab-stops: 27.0pt 36.0pt 45.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体;"><p> </p></span></p><p> </p><p></p><p> </p><p></p><p></p></div>
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